Why relationships don't work anymore

Face it they just don't. I've been part of this phenomenon by actively adding my own statistics to it. It saddened me every time I saw one of my relationships come to and end and it still saddens me when couples around me break on a daily basis.

Why, why, why aren't relationships just working anymore?

1- Social Media

Attention whores are now all over the place. You want attention from the world. You want popularity. Being popular in the confinements of your home is just not enough. I just doesn't cut it anymore. So, you go ahead, take a selfie, post it on Instagram or Facebook and right away you have 29389723 people drooling over you and boosting your self esteem with sexual comments and innuendo. This attention causes the release of doses of dopamine in your brain that bring temporary pleasure that people just can't stop craving from then on.

2- Cell phones

Although they look useful, and they are, they are relationship killers. You don't talk to people anymore. You just text them. You don't see people face to face anymore. You just text them. You let know someone that you are attractive using a wink, or a smiley, or you ask them out through an sms. Long gone are the days where you needed the guts to knock on the girls door, face the Dad, ask if Carla is in. She doesn't see your eyes, the tone of your voice. Cell phones have made it way to easy to approach the opposite sex. Anybody can approach no matter how bad your game is. This inevitably leads to lower quality hook ups on average.

3-EBay, Paypal, ECommerce

You don't buy flowers and bring them over in person anymore. You buy them on the Internet and pay for the delivery to her house. You don't buy furniture while walking on the store holding each other's hands anymore, you just browse through a catalog online from your bed.

Points 1, 2, and 3 have led to a disconnected life. We don't cherish physical contact anymore. We are lacking it. We are putting the social essence of our specie aside for the detriment of the quality of our relationships.

4-Living Costs and Taxes are a bitch

People let the stress of daily life take over their lives. 

That Broadway show we were thinking about last month? Forget it! Rent is coming up. 

That get away over to a remote two star motel to have sex on a random weekend? Don't make me laugh, we still have mountains of student debt and anyways, we better use our weekends to put some work in order to obtain those extra dollars we always need.

The trip to Italy we always dreamed about. Are you Bill Gates? our BMW and Accord car payments are coming in two days again.

Threesome? Hell No! They are too expensive these days and besides, with all my bills and financial commitments I just don't feel sexual anymore. I don't have time to be thinking about sex.

People live in wonderful cities they can't enjoy due to excessive working hours in order to make ends meet. When money is tight (it always is), this tightness inevitably starts to influence your daily life to the point you just postpone romance and quality time altogether.

5-Online Porn

Too much good material out there to jerk off to. By the time the lady comes home your tank is empty. This didn't happen in the past. Our grandpas didn't have to deal with this complicated issue.

6-Gender Equality

I know it is not politically correct to deprive women of the same rights men always had. I'm not in favor or against. I'm just stating facts and the fact is that Gender Equality has led to the destruction of the family as the core of modern societies. Women can and do now ride the cock carousel without consequences only to try and settle down in their thirties, after a lot of mental issues and well past their physical prime. Inevitably fewer men will be able to love them at that point. 

The lack of Gender Equality forced women to stay in broken marriages in the past. Either for economical support or just to avoid being ostracized in a world that marginalized divorced female individuals.

So, Are we worse than our grand parents? Are we meaner or more stupid persons nowadays?

Not at all. We're victims of modernity, technology and freedom. If our grand parents had to deal with Facebook, Instagram, cell Phones, Ebay, Paypal, online shopping, High living costs, Porn and Gender Equality you can bet relationships just wouldn't have worked. Marriages just wouldn't have lasted as they did.

Is the current state of things good or bad?

Look, La Fiera is not here to judge, just to share his wisdom.

I hate attention whores on Facebook and Instagram (although specifically on Instagram some of them are really hot). 

On the other hand, I like it when people are sincere to themselves and to those around. I like it for women to not be oppressed or discriminated against. I prefer free human beings rather than persons tied to unions that are long dead and just make them unhappy.

I prefer horny people with a fun sex life thanks to porn.

In general I agree with modernity. But if you want for your relationship to last in the long run, please be aware of all these factors, and actively do something every day to mitigate their influence:

Spend quality time with your loved one at least 15 minutes every day. Watch a movie together. Listen to music while you cook (don't order out). Clean up the house together. Talk to each other without technology interruptions at least 10 minutes per day. Work out together.

Make it a habit to not waste more than 10 minutes per day on social media sites.

Do not text him/her. Do Call him/her. Do not text him, go talk to him and have him look into your eyes.

Live well below your means so that finances are never a problem that kills the mood in the relationship.

Watch not any, but good porn together.

Be modern and accept gender equality, but show who's the boss in the house and in bed. Earn that respect with your masculinity, strength and cock. Treat her nice, but tough. Have her be your princess as well as your whore, all in the same day.

Escrito por "La Fiera Humana" el Lunes 21 de Septiembre del 2015.